A universal truth is that we all have struggles…it’s also a universal truth that many relationships fail because not all of them are presented in the beginning.
Top of list for me were my selfish/self-centered sexual fantasies/desires…most guys probably wouldn’t admit to this…women either.

Along the same lines is inferiority complexes centered around the “little man”…and this is certainly not up for discussion when it’s TIME…these issues start early…hell, for me, there was no “birds and bees” discussion in adolescence…

I’ve been in about 7 relationships that were toxic in one way or the other…the weakest link , and common thread, in them was my definition of “love” was linked to lust…and my desperate attempt to be a”normal man”

A dime in the box went a long ways towards clearing that misconception up for me…and several years of therapy helped me as well…

The cornerstone of my success is my desire to be a caring and compassionate person…and a really  good friend I met 16yr ago…

So when you find yourself “falling out of love” with your “true love” maybe there’s something not being discussed…and maybe that discussion could be the savior

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